WRITTEN BY Lesley Holland Downey The downside of being a beauty writer is that people always assume that I’m judging them—that their makeup is not enough or too much, or that the products they are using are somehow the wrong ones. The truth is I’m always curious about self-care—because I find infinite delight in the process (most days). When someone pulls lipstick, hand cream, or face wash out of their bag, I want to know what it is, why they use it, and most importantly, if I need it. Taking …